tl; dr. UNETHICAL. THEY WILL TRY TO FORCE ITEMS ON YOU THAT YOU DIDN'T ORDER.
Longer version: The waitress came by and asked if it was okay if the seafood pancake was a little bit spicy. I told her that no, it wasn't okay, and that I had ordered the non-spicy version. She clearly knew that, nodded, came back with the spicy version, and asked again if it was okay. No, it's still not okay! But my husband accepted it because we had been waiting for our food for awhile and we were hungry. I had two young kids with me who love seafood pancake, but spit this out and spent a couple minutes eating ice, because like most kids, they can't tolerate spicy food yet. The waitress looked our way guiltily and gave us free rice (wow, how generous!). We hurried back home to feed them something they could eat. The bill still reflected the item that we didn't order. Never going back to a place that forces an order on me when I tell them otherwise and charges me full price.